Parenting Articles

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Kids want cellphones to connect with peers, build friendships and find a sense of belonging. When is the best time for them to get their first mobile device?

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As much as we'd like to think of our children as innocent, we parents need to become aware of the widespread use of pornography among tweens and teens.
Is a gluten-free/casein-free diet helpful in treating autism? Our son was diagnosed as autistic several years ago. We've been using behavioral therapies with him, but a friend suggested that this kind of diet might also be helpful.

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Do you have any advice for disciplining and training uncooperative school‐age children? My child is now in the elementary grades and life in our household is still an ongoing battle. Can you help us?

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How can we encourage and promote our young child's love for learning when we don't have the money for preschool? She already knows how to read and she's curious about everything. I'm not sure that I'm equipped to homeschool a child of her ability. What do you suggest we do?

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We have a toddler who is just learning to talk – is there anything important we should know about the respective ways in which moms and dads influence speech development?

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How can we get our finicky four‐year‐old to eat what we put in front of her? We never allow between‐meal snacks, yet dinnertime has become a major pain.

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How do I tell my young children that their dad won't be around for a long time because he's going to jail? He just received a two‐year prison term. Is there a gentle way to break this to them and help them understand?

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Will my sarcastic style of humor hurt my children? I've always tended to express myself in a wry, ironic way. But now my spouse is telling me that this is going to be damaging to our kids, especially as they move into the teen years. What do you think?

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How can we assess whether or not our child is ready to start school? Can you suggest any basic guidelines?

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How can fathers help their girls learn about modesty? I want my daughter to get a handle on this concept before she becomes a teen, but I feel awkward about raising this subject with her. What's the right role for a father here?

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My husband frequently lashes out at our children physically, and has seriously injured them on more than one occasion. I want to protect them, but I'm terrified of how he may react if I challenge him. What can I do?

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How can I tell whether my toddler has a serious case of stuttering or stammering, or whether it's just a normal part of speech development when he has difficulty getting his words out?

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How do we help a child who seems to have no sense of humor? I'm concerned about how this will affect him socially. Even more importantly, I want him to enjoy life. Am I right to be concerned?

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How do we deal with an unhappy and contrary pubescent boy? Our ten‐year‐old son has just hit puberty, and it seems to have drastically altered his personality.

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How can I give my kids the chance to try different activities and programs when we don't have much money? I'm a stay-at-home mom and my husband works hard to support our family, but we're living on a shoestring budget. I don't want my children to miss out on life-enriching opportunities.

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I am frazzled! I feel like I have almost nothing left for my kids or my husband, but it just feels wrong if I even think of saying “no” when I’m asked to volunteer or help. What can I do?

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My kids are so ready for the school year to end (and to be honest, so am I). Do you have any recommendations to help us really start our summer right?

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Our son is turning 10-years-old this month, and we’d like to celebrate his birthday a little differently. We’re not trying to go cheap on him, but we want to do something that focuses on celebrating him.

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On birthdays, our sons are at a stage where they tend to focus on themselves and what they will be getting. We’d like to help them learn to be less self-centered and to think about others.

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My son (age 13), is suddenly very interested in girls—and a lot of girls at school are very interested in him. How can we teach him about healthy relationships that don’t involve romance?
Our daughter (age 8) has just developed a crush on a boy at school. It’s kind of cute right now, but my husband and I want her to understand what love really is.

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We have both teens and pre-teens in the home, and I’m having trouble with all of them when it comes to limiting the amount of time they spend with phones, tablets, and computers.

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Our sons (8 and 10) are really awesome kids, but it seems like they have some entitlement issues. What would you suggest for instilling a sense of gratitude?

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Parental love can be transforming for you and your child. But it is an endeavor that can always use improvement and refinement.